Zach’s Rules for Life
The idea for Zach’s Rules was to try to turn all the horror, pain, sadness and grief into something that others could grab onto and take away from this awfulness. A way to apply the lessons we learned from Zach and his journey to help people improve their relationships and their lives. The hope is that Zach’s Rules can help someone think differently about themselves and their world, and maybe change just a bit to make themselves and or the world just a bit better.
The Rules
We first shared 9 Rules on November 11, 2021 at Zach’s celebration of life.
Gradually, over time new Rules emerged, and while we usually only cover 9, we have versions of Zach’s story that have included as many as 12 and as few as 3.
- 9. If you get angry, and you will from time to time, put it behind you and get back to life. It should take about 20 minutes or so. Apologize if needed.
- 8. When someone has cancer…Run toward them. Check on them. Don’t stop. Stay with them.
- 7. Sing if you want to sing.
- 6. Stay busy doing lots of things. Find your passions and go deep. Learn everything you can about them and then learn more.
- 5. Be compassionate & have empathy.
- 4. Move with urgency.
- 3. Grief gives you choices. Don’t let grief suffocate you. You can still be sad, but turn that grief into action.
- 2. Be like Zach and keep moving forward.
- 1. Tell those you love, that you love them. Hug them.
And the others that are just as important, are below
- Smile, a lot. Tell jokes, good ones, bad ones, stupid ones. Laugh a lot.
- Love and surround yourself with animals.
- Give back to others as much as you can. Share. Volunteer.
- Say Please
Bring Zach's Rules for Life to Your Meeting or Event
We have shared Zach’s Rules for Life with more than 4000 people, at more than 25 different events. Whether it’s an all company meeting, a conference, a charity event, team meeting, school or in person or virtual, we’ve done it. We’ve shared Zach’s Rules with audiences of more than 1000 and less than 10. We do this to honor him, give people the chance to get to know him, learn from his and our journey, and in spite of his tragic loss of life, leave with some Rules that can help you think differently about life.
If you would like to have us share Zach’s Rules, let’s chat.
